Any act can be done in a Dominant manner. Most people are made to believe acts of oral sex are something reserved for a submissive. What makes someone draw to that foolish conclusion? I believe that oral or a blowjob can in fact be very Dominant in nature if done with the impression of power.
Now let Me be clear; it is entirely up to the Woman if he is going to actually “blow”, but for My purposes here I will continue to use the term blowjob regardless of the ending (if any).
Dominance shows itself in many ways. A Woman can be a Domme naturally in Her life and/or relationship(s); most independent Women are. If She is Dominant in a vanilla way it does not necessarily mean She is a fetish FemDom or is going to carry Her Dominating into the bedroom or sexually as you fantasize about. It seems too often that a sub will fall for a Woman because of Her natural Dominating presence and find themself stuck in this predicament of wanting to serve Her desires, wanting Her to explore Her kinks, and don’t know how to do this without ‘topping from the bottom‘.
Whether your man is a real submissive or not you can make him submit to you in the bedroom. Obviously what your man is going to do for you depends on you. I’ve seen the most submissive male become dominant in the bedroom… but one needs to question why. If a Female doesn’t realize Her power She generally won’t use it to get what She wants. This can lead to a sexually unsatisfied Woman; and one that in turn doesn’t want sex as She doesn’t get fulfillment.
I enjoy the mindfuck. I enjoy the written word, sounds, imagery, and all experiences of Female Dominance and FLR. It seems cliche, but I have been a FemDom My entire life. I have always been a leader since I was a little girl. I love taking the reins and giving people experience; I like to know someone’s deepest desires and then push it further.