It can be scary, the things our minds are drawn to; the fantasies that manifest inside us, which our arousal seems to fuel deeper. We can fight it, but relapse is inevitable that way. There is no way to ‘push’ away such things from your life, and as much as you think burying these arousing concepts feels like a safe option all it serves to do is make them stronger. You are using all your power to buy time as they expand.
If you hide baby monsters under the carpet they will grow bigger in the dark.
FemDom is for nice girls too. Not all Women want to be mean, whip wielding Dominatrixes. That may be My fetish, and something I enjoy. However, it is not a character that is fair to place on your Domme, regardless of how deep any such fetish may be for you. She is her own person, and may or may not Dominate in her own way.
Financial Domination aka FinDom has a very unique fascination in the last few years. It also seems to have a polarizing reaction from subs; either they love it or hate it. This is partially due to the common view of FinDom, and how it has been primarily become used as a greedy obsession by many young “baby Dommes” who look at it as a fast and easy way to rape men and subs of their hard earned money. There is a fetish for being a Finsub, and even financial rape, but there is much more to FinDom than most realize.
Slave. A label so quickly tossed around in BDSM and fetish with little thought to why it provokes such controversial arousal in so many people. Keep in mind, everything in BDSM requires consent between two or more adults, so we are speaking on the term slave specifically used in a consented context.
Giving yourself up to someone is one of the deepest forms of love. To appreciate something so profoundly that it allows you to change your behaviour to favour the other is a strong aphrodisiac and the essence of slavery and submission. So why the term “slave” over let’s say “submissive” or “pet” or the copious others labels that can be given to a bottom in service? They can all wear collars after all.
What you consume matters. If your body is to be Mine to play with then it best be fuelled to go the distance. Not just any fuel either; clean-burning nutrient rich fuel is what you need. This is why I use calorie counting along with macros to ensure you eat the right kind of and amounts of food to achieve your goals.
There is so much to take into account when sculpting a body into a desirable submissive pet. Here are some example man diets using calories and macros based on weight, body type, training, and goals. They show you just how unique diets and training are to your desired outcome and should help you format your own should you be taking on this challenge yourself.
Slave positions are a staple in and good BDSM or D/s. Every Master has their preferences. Favourites for Dommes develop over time, and possibly depending on the submissive. For Me I have always found it good form to familiarize yourself with many slave positions, even if you don’t use them regularly, so that you are limber and ready to move as I desire you to.