It can be scary, the things our minds are drawn to; the fantasies that manifest inside us, which our arousal seems to fuel deeper. We can fight it, but relapse is inevitable that way. There is no way to ‘push’ away such things from your life, and as much as you think burying these arousing concepts feels like a safe option all it serves to do is make them stronger. You are using all your power to buy time as they expand.
If you hide baby monsters under the carpet they will grow bigger in the dark.
FemDom is for nice girls too. Not all Women want to be mean, whip wielding Dominatrixes. That may be My fetish, and something I enjoy. However, it is not a character that is fair to place on your Domme, regardless of how deep any such fetish may be for you. She is her own person, and may or may not Dominate in her own way.
Slave. A label so quickly tossed around in BDSM and fetish with little thought to why it provokes such controversial arousal in so many people. Keep in mind, everything in BDSM requires consent between two or more adults, so we are speaking on the term slave specifically used in a consented context.
Giving yourself up to someone is one of the deepest forms of love. To appreciate something so profoundly that it allows you to change your behaviour to favour the other is a strong aphrodisiac and the essence of slavery and submission. So why the term “slave” over let’s say “submissive” or “pet” or the copious others labels that can be given to a bottom in service? They can all wear collars after all.
What you consume matters. If your body is to be Mine to play with then it best be fuelled to go the distance. Not just any fuel either; clean-burning nutrient rich fuel is what you need. This is why I use calorie counting along with macros to ensure you eat the right kind of and amounts of food to achieve your goals.
There is so much to take into account when sculpting a body into a desirable submissive pet. Here are some example man diets using calories and macros based on weight, body type, training, and goals. They show you just how unique diets and training are to your desired outcome and should help you format your own should you be taking on this challenge yourself.
Fetish is something that develops; “a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.” [cite: Definitions from Oxford Languages]. It builds within you from some moment or experience of sensation. A fixation. It is natural. Life is full of fascinations to capture and spellbound you. Not all of your fetishes will have clear origins. One thing is clear; they have been drawn out from within you.