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Why I Require Initial Tribute

Why Every Domme Should

There are many points I can make to show why a sub paying initial tribute is the correct way to begin all FemDom relationships; for both parties’ minds and to set precedences between the Top and bottom. Every interaction between Domme and sub matters in building connection and the full body and mind experience. To act with acceptable and expected manners from the start is of utmost importance. How a relationship begins sets the stage for how it will continue.

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Relapsing Into Fetish

It can be scary, the things our minds are drawn to; the fantasies that manifest inside us, which our arousal seems to fuel deeper. We can fight it, but relapse is inevitable that way. There is no way to ‘push’ away such things from your life, and as much as you think burying these arousing concepts feels like a safe option all it serves to do is make them stronger. You are using all your power to buy time as they expand.

If you hide baby monsters under the carpet they will grow bigger in the dark.

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What Is A Slave, Anyways?

Slave. A label so quickly tossed around in BDSM and fetish with little thought to why it provokes such controversial arousal in so many people. Keep in mind, everything in BDSM requires consent between two or more adults, so we are speaking on the term slave specifically used in a consented context.

Giving yourself up to someone is one of the deepest forms of love. To appreciate something so profoundly that it allows you to change your behaviour to favour the other is a strong aphrodisiac and the essence of slavery and submission. So why the term “slave” over let’s say “submissive” or “pet” or the copious others labels that can be given to a bottom in service? They can all wear collars after all.

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Man Diets

There is so much to take into account when sculpting a body into a desirable submissive pet. Here are some example man diets using calories and macros based on weight, body type, training, and goals. They show you just how unique diets and training are to your desired outcome and should help you format your own should you be taking on this challenge yourself.

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The Origin Of Your Fetish

Fetish is something that develops; “a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.” [cite: Definitions from Oxford Languages]. It builds within you from some moment or experience of sensation. A fixation. It is natural. Life is full of fascinations to capture and spellbound you. Not all of your fetishes will have clear origins. One thing is clear; they have been drawn out from within you.

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Topping From The Bottom

A Submissive’s Intent

I believe that all Females have greatness in them in their own way; a power that needs awakening. Something like the force. I enjoy bringing power out in Women as it has been done for Me; whether it is by Me personally or by training a sub how to bring out Dominance in a Woman he desires to serve. Some may argue that is topping from the bottom. Something you have heard mentioned and are respectfully fearful of. To make it simple: Intent is what makes the difference.

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