What Is A Slave, Anyways?

Slave. A label so quickly tossed around in BDSM and fetish with little thought to why it provokes such controversial arousal in so many people. Keep in mind, everything in BDSM requires consent between two or more adults, so we are speaking on the term slave specifically used in a consented context.

Giving yourself up to someone is one of the deepest forms of love. To appreciate something so profoundly that it allows you to change your behaviour to favour the other is a strong aphrodisiac and the essence of slavery and submission. So why the term “slave” over let’s say “submissive” or “pet” or the copious others labels that can be given to a bottom in service? They can all wear collars after all.

Slave suggests unwavering service to a Master

It immediately aligns a bottom’s mind and what is expected. Better still, slave can be used in conjunction with others nouns to further humiliate, degrade, and/or objectify the willing bottom. Something like “sex slave” defines the exact purpose of the person and labeling them with their desired use to you can send a tingle down a submissive’s body. “I know my purpose” will be instantly revealed in their mind, and this (much like bondage) is freeing to a person with, otherwise, so many choices and options in life.

It is obvious that trust must be obtained before any slavery contract can be conducted or entertained. The Dominant must be ready and willing to accept the responsibilities given to them by someone relinquishing their rights and becoming a slave in any context. This itself is no simple burden, but it can be powerful when done right. They also require the tools to decide the best use for one under their (complete) control. Don’t be discouraged, not everyone is a fit right away. Taking the time to learn what a Mistress wants and expects can aid greatly in a slave finding an appropriate owner.

As slave immediately suggests ‘in service to’; it can act to relinquish the bottom from responsibilities that may weigh on their mind and interfere with the pure arousal of experience and that which stimulates our playful minds. By becoming a slave it is not their choice if they are made to dress or act a certain way, and this allows them to relinquish judgement and experience. A good Dominant will be able use a slave as S/he feels fit, and will be able to give direction to make them useful and to push otherwise impassable limits the mind may put on a sub.

My Dominance prevails relinquishing the slave from Judgement

As a slave is to do what his Master or Mistress commands, there is no choice in the matter. The slave’s mind never needs to decide if the action or behaviour labels or alters them in any way as it does not. It is obeying command and remaining open to experience. In this way a forced bi experience, or enjoying it, does not make someone gay, it doesn’t make a cuckold pussy-whipped, or a footstool less than dirt. A slave is never worth nothing. This gives the slave only the pure experience of the possible pleasures and/or atrocities their Mistress has created for them.

What is a slave to a Domme?

Delightful. Useful. Enlightening. A Pleasure. A toast to Domme Divinity and the practical balance of life – give and take. These are terms I would use to describe some of my best slaves. For a Domme like Me, finding the perfect bottom to play often identifies as ‘slave’, or at least, gets tingle sensations when I utter the word to them. It lets Me know they are ready to submit in the most beautifully serious boundary-breaking roleplay and that gets My blood pumping; that is playing with life and breaking down the limits, labels, and barriers faced in normal everyday life to safely experience something deep and real.

If the term slave seems too harsh for you just yet then slave boy or slave girl seem to soften the feels you get until you are ready to embrace a much more deeper adult feeling of power exchange. Or maybe adding your duty to be performed is all that is needed to isolate it and allow your mind to accept it, ie. sex slave, foot slave, shoe slave, slave doll, house slave, ass slave, etc.

Play Safely and with Care

Regardless, don’t let a term box you in. Use it and play with it. Lastly to all My brothers and sisters who have faced real, undesired, oppression in their daily life (or in any undesired context) know that My heart goes out to you. We are all equals; BDSM is our playground where we play with pleasurable and painful scenarios. Play safely and sanely and with those who care; know and define the difference between your scene and real life. Practice pre and aftercare. We are all pink on the inside.

Sincerely yours,
Goddess SheDevil

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Well of course you’re turned on, slave. The trick is learning how to channel all that energy into something useful, like making Me happy.

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