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Why I Require Initial Tribute

Why Every Domme Should

There are many points I can make to show why a sub paying initial tribute is the correct way to begin all FemDom relationships; for both parties’ minds and to set precedences between the Top and bottom. Every interaction between Domme and sub matters in building connection and the full body and mind experience. To act with acceptable and expected manners from the start is of utmost importance. How a relationship begins sets the stage for how it will continue.

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Relapsing Into Fetish

It can be scary, the things our minds are drawn to; the fantasies that manifest inside us, which our arousal seems to fuel deeper. We can fight it, but relapse is inevitable that way. There is no way to ‘push’ away such things from your life, and as much as you think burying these arousing concepts feels like a safe option all it serves to do is make them stronger. You are using all your power to buy time as they expand.

If you hide baby monsters under the carpet they will grow bigger in the dark.

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What Is A Slave, Anyways?

Slave. A label so quickly tossed around in BDSM and fetish with little thought to why it provokes such controversial arousal in so many people. Keep in mind, everything in BDSM requires consent between two or more adults, so we are speaking on the term slave specifically used in a consented context.

Giving yourself up to someone is one of the deepest forms of love. To appreciate something so profoundly that it allows you to change your behaviour to favour the other is a strong aphrodisiac and the essence of slavery and submission. So why the term “slave” over let’s say “submissive” or “pet” or the copious others labels that can be given to a bottom in service? They can all wear collars after all.

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You Have A Fetish

A pattern of arousal from an object or experience

Fetish is such a vague word. I find people have come to use it to describe anything that is not giving or receiving oral, vaginal intercourse, or anal intercourse. It seems that those are all vanilla and fetish is everything else. Like there is this fetish pattern; a way in which it presents itself in someone. Once one is tired of the normal feelings of simple touch fantasy creeps in. Seeds itself. It intensifies within you. Draws you to it. And once you let it in it blossoms into your fetish and becomes part of you.

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