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BDSM sex is a term for a variety of sexual practices that include bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, and sadism.
Slave positions are a staple in any good BDSM scene or D/s relationship. Every Master has their preferences. Favourites for Dommes develop over time, and possibly depending on the submissive. For Me I have always found it good form for a submissive to familiarize themself with many slave positions. Even if you don’t use them all regularly they allow you to keep limber and ready to move as I desire you to.
Continue reading “11 Slave Positions”Any act can be done in a Dominant manner. Most people are made to believe acts of oral sex are something reserved for a submissive. What makes someone draw to that foolish conclusion? I believe that oral or a blowjob can in fact be very Dominant in nature if done with the impression of power.
Now let Me be clear; it is entirely up to the Woman if he is going to actually “blow”, but for My purposes here I will continue to use the term blowjob regardless of the ending (if any).
Whether your man identifies as a real submissive or not you can make him submit to you in the bedroom. Generally, with little effort required. Obviously what your man is going to do for you depends on you. I’ve seen the most submissive males become dominant in the bedroom… but one needs to question why. If a Female doesn’t realize Her power She generally won’t use it to get what She wants, which leaves a man to fumble around in futile attempts to please. This can lead to a sexually unsatisfied Woman, and one that in turn doesn’t want sex as She doesn’t get the fulfillment he so desires to give Her.
I believe that all Females have greatness in them in their own way; a power that needs awakening. Something like the force. I enjoy bringing power out in Women as it has been done for Me; whether it is by Me personally or by training a sub how to bring out Dominance in a Woman he desires to serve. Some may argue that is topping from the bottom. Something you have heard mentioned and are respectfully fearful of. To make it simple: Intent is what makes the difference.
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A safeword for the Domme may not be clear at first. If you take a moment to think about it, it makes perfect sense. Not much is ever spoken about in terms of Dommes and a safeword for them. Subbie limits are well respected. The Dommes safety however seems to be a very large and important area that has been overlooked. It is brought to a bottoms awareness as a submissive that they are given safewords to protect and monitor themself with, it is just as so in regards to the Master.
Continue reading “A Safeword for the Master”Topdrop & Subdrop are terms you should know if you take part in any Dominant/submissive experiences. They happen, more often than not, because our emotional depth from an experience and the real world collides, and can be devastating.The stronger and deeper you venture into your fantasies the more likely a drop will occur. There are measures to follow to prevent and manage Topdrop or subdrop. As much as they are similar they are also different.
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Fetish is such a vague word. I find people have come to use it to describe anything that is not giving or receiving oral, vaginal intercourse, or anal intercourse. It seems that those are all vanilla and fetish is everything else. Like there is this fetish pattern; a way in which it presents itself in someone. Once one is tired of the normal feelings of simple touch fantasy creeps in. Seeds itself. It intensifies within you. Draws you to it. And once you let it in it blossoms into your fetish and becomes part of you.
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