Slave. A label so quickly tossed around in BDSM and fetish with little thought to why it provokes such controversial arousal in so many people. Keep in mind, everything in BDSM requires consent between two or more adults, so we are speaking on the term slave specifically used in a consented context.
Giving yourself up to someone is one of the deepest forms of love. To appreciate something so profoundly that it allows you to change your behaviour to favour the other is a strong aphrodisiac and the essence of slavery and submission. So why the term “slave” over let’s say “submissive” or “pet” or the copious others labels that can be given to a bottom in service? They can all wear collars after all.
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Slave positions are a staple in and good BDSM or D/s. Every Master has their preferences. Favourites for Dommes develop over time, and possibly depending on the submissive. For Me I have always found it good form to familiarize yourself with many slave positions, even if you don’t use them regularly, so that you are limber and ready to move as I desire you to.
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Safeguarding for safe & sane BDSM
A safeword for the Domme may not be clear at first. If you take a moment to think about it, it makes perfect sense. Not much is ever spoken about in terms of Dommes and a safeword for them. Subbie limits are well respected. The Dommes safety however seems to be a very large and important area that has been overlooked. It is brought to a bottoms awareness as a submissive that they are given safewords to protect and monitor themself with, it is just as so in regards to the Master.
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it’s time to crawl over to your Goddess and use that mouth to clean My perfect filthy feet this morning. your mouth is My foot wash, and you will use that pathetic tongue to massage and suck clean each one of My tiny smelly toes until I am satisfied.
…then I will tell you your tasks for the day loserboy…
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The drop after the BDSM high
Topdrop & Subdrop are terms you should know if you take part in any Dominant/submissive experiences. They happen, more often than not, because our emotional depth from an experience and the real world collides, and can be devastating.The stronger and deeper you venture into your fantasies the more likely a drop will occur. There are measures to follow to prevent and manage Topdrop or subdrop. As much as they are similar they are also different.