It can be scary, the things our minds are drawn to; the fantasies that manifest inside us, which our arousal seems to fuel deeper. We can fight it, but relapse is inevitable that way. There is no way to ‘push’ away such things from your life, and as much as you think burying these arousing concepts feels like a safe option all it serves to do is make them stronger. You are using all your power to buy time as they expand.
If you hide baby monsters under the carpet they will grow bigger in the dark.
What works for some may not work for others. Ever notice how different we all are? Do you know what your body type is? Do you know how you should eat or be active to best achieve a healthy submissive form for Me?
Stretching warms up your body and keeps it ready for My Domination over you. So, what better way to stretch than to incorporate them into practicing slaves positions to please your Mistress? Breath deep and slow and assume each position with intent. Pause for a moment in each position, holding it for 10 seconds, and take a deep breath feeling every part of your body and surrendering it to your Goddess.
If you are fuelling your body right the physical training will be a rewarding burn as you are sculpted into a desirable submissive. Although you will exercise your body, referring to it as training reconditions your mind from a chore to a discipline and habit in your life you can be proud of. There are different types of physical training and a good rounded balance ensures the best desired outcome; as all matter in submission and keeping your body in adequate form.
It’s Sunday. That means it’s time for your check-in, pet. I want to see pictures of those tight cages, full balls, leaky tips, and all your devotion to your Goddess in My DMs today.
FemDom Coach check-in
Starting weight Current weight Diet report (were you good/ok/bad) including cheat day Total hrs of strength training (weight lifting/bodyweight) Total hours and type of resilience training (cardio/hiit) Worship hrs (weekly stroking & straining) Tribute sent | Debt added (weekly totals)
Let this be a ritual. I want you to report for the past week every Sunday.
What you consume matters. If your body is to be Mine to play with then it best be fuelled to go the distance. Not just any fuel either; clean-burning nutrient rich fuel is what you need. This is why I use calorie counting along with macros to ensure you eat the right kind of and amounts of food to achieve your goals.
There is so much to take into account when sculpting a body into a desirable submissive pet. Here are some example man diets using calories and macros based on weight, body type, training, and goals. They show you just how unique diets and training are to your desired outcome and should help you format your own should you be taking on this challenge yourself.
Dominance shows itself in many ways. A Woman can be a Domme naturally in Her life and/or relationship(s); most independent Women are. If She is Dominant in a vanilla way it does not necessarily mean She is a fetish FemDom or is going to carry Her Dominating into the bedroom or sexually as you fantasize about. It seems too often that a sub will fall for a Woman because of Her natural Dominating presence and find themself stuck in this predicament of wanting to serve Her desires, wanting Her to explore Her kinks, and don’t know how to do this without ‘topping from the bottom‘.
A safeword for the Domme may not be clear at first. If you take a moment to think about it, it makes perfect sense. Not much is ever spoken about in terms of Dommes and a safeword for them. Subbie limits are well respected. The Dommes safety however seems to be a very large and important area that has been overlooked. It is brought to a bottoms awareness as a submissive that they are given safewords to protect and monitor themself with, it is just as so in regards to the Master.