FemDom For Nice Girls

FemDom is for nice girls too. Not all Women want to be mean, whip wielding Dominatrixes. That may be My fetish, and something I enjoy. However, it is not a character that is fair to place on your Domme, regardless of how deep any such fetish may be for you. She is her own person, and may or may not Dominate in her own way.

To be honest, Women are genetically made to be the deciders and creators of life. It has been long though that woman are responsible for choosing an appropriate mate as well as actually raising little humans; what could be more powerful and in control than that? In this way women have the capacity to have complete control. It is whether she decides it is worth her time and energy to exert this power. As many things, this power control takes a lot of energy and effort.

I have said it many times, but it warrants repeating, if you want your Woman to Dominate you then you, as the submissive, must step up and make it worth while for Her to expend such energy. Without the know how it is hard to imagine how to turn a vanilla wife/husband relationship into a D/s Dominant Woman and submissive male one. So, if you are unsure how to proceed, how can you ever expect to throw this into her lap and expect her to know what to do? Women are powerful but this is just selfish, rude, and unfair on all accounts.

All Women Are Capable of Being Dominant

Women like control, however they also need to be contained. What does this mean? It means she needs you to do your part as the submissive to allow for her Dominance to flourish. She needs support, love, and resources to help give her the knowledge and tools to be a FemDom. If you want to make your sexual fantasies become reality then you had better start with every day life, like the kitchen, laundry, opening her door, asking for permission, and domestic chores.

This will all lead to controlling your life and dick, don’t worry, and do not rush it! Every little step matters; it is a journey in a FLR & FemDom Relationship you build together.

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Women are not driven sexually in the same way men are. She will not likely share these same fascinations with controlling your penis as you do; at least not yet! All women ideally want to own and control their man and have them be the only one their man lusts after. However, few understand how this is even possible. So men find porn and fantasize in secret about something they don’t realize could actually be a reality in their relationship.

How To Turn A Nice Girl Into A FemDom

Imagine you came up with a productive idea at work; how would you convince others to believe in your idea(s)? You give them supporting evidence, a game plan, and tools to make it a reality. Luckily for you, you are not the first to want a FemDom relationship, and there are many existing resources out there you can utilize.

I do believe the biggest trick here is how do you put it in motion that She takes control when you’re the one starting it? Read My article on Topping From The Bottom to get a grasp on the right way to encourage your submission to a woman while keeping her the Dominant one in control.

One of these invaluable resources I have found is a book mentioned to Me by a submissive husband who is enjoying developing a more deep and D/s relationship with his Wife and Temptress. It is called “FemDom For Nice Girls by Lucy Fairbourne“. I will give you the same advice I gave him after reading this book Myself: buy it for her (if digitally buy her a journal as well) and allow her to go through it at her own pace. Do NOT read it or her journal yourself.

The whole point here is that she learns to develop control and ways that Female Domination may give her things in life that she desires. By her having this knowledge alone, it allows her to go at her own pace without your influence, and trust Me, this is exactly what you want.

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A Real FemDom Relationship Trumps Any Fantasy

Whether you are a woman wanting to Dominate a man or a male submissive who desires his partner to step and Dominate you this book should be your first go to. It is a step-by-step guide to the beginnings of FemDom & FLR without all that scary BDSM talk that turn some women off.

It goes through the basics of what being Dominant looks like while also guiding the reader to learn what her style of FemDom looks like. In this way she has a starting point that is all her, making it easy for any beginner Top to feel confident and in control – isn’t that exactly what you were after in the first place?

So, submissive gents and future Dominant Ladies, if you don’t have this book in your library I suggest you go out and get it now. Gift it to your Female partner as a gift to you for Her time reading it. Ladies, you’ll have him so effortlessly in submission and getting what you want your way that you’re going to wonder why you didn’t read this book ages ago!



Well of course you’re turned on, slave. The trick is learning how to channel all that energy into something useful, like making Me happy.

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