A Dominant Blowjob

Any act can be done in a Dominant manner. Most people are made to believe acts of oral sex are something reserved for a submissive. What makes someone draw to that foolish conclusion? I believe that oral or a blowjob can in fact be very Dominant in nature if done with the impression of power.

Now let Me be clear; it is entirely up to the Woman if he is going to actually “blow”, but for My purposes here I will continue to use the term blowjob regardless of the ending (if any).

Using A Blowjob To Make him More Submissive

Some Dominant Women will use oral sex as a way to make a male even more submissive. Any half-trained male will be thankful and grateful to a Woman who takes the time to perform oral sex on him. he will then want to return the favour somehow… that is when they can be used for greater purposes than without the oral sex. This works for any man who has feelings for a Woman; whether he is truly submissive or not. The more he enjoys the blowjob – regardless of actual finish – the more he will do for Her.

It’s About What SHE Wants

Other Dominant Women just enjoy giving a blowjob. She feels powerful holding his helpless cock in Her hands โ€“ teasing and playing with him like a toy โ€“ knowing She makes it respond better than he could ever make it. A penis is manโ€™s only real valuable possession in the masculine mind, and the idea that She has control over it is quite arousing to both the submissive male and Dominant Female. This is why a lot of Women enjoy controlled masturbation โ€“ controlled orgasm and orgasm denial โ€“ and chastity as well; the control over his tool is satisfying to Her.

To the Women: How to give a Dominant Blowjob

The mood will be set right at the beginning. You need to be one who initiates it. Drop subtle hints that you are thinking about doing it โ€“ but make sure he knows it will be on your terms โ€“ and tease him. If you can do this for a time before actually performing the act of fellatio it will build up his gratefulness and make him comply more when you actually get down to it. Send him naughty photos during the day beforehand. Make his balls swell at the thought; that way he will be full and ready for you.

Let Me go through how I enjoy doing fellatio on a male submissive.

I prefer having My males collared and bound. Tied up and make him worship My body for a long time before even considering a being touched himself. Doing all this does not mean I am going to give him oral, but it keeps him feeling helpless and I always remain in full control. Fellatio is a special occasion for My housepet, and he knows it. Keeping him guessing is part of My fun of playing with him like a toy.

Spit and Control his Mind

Spit on his penis. Never doubt the power of spit. Although everyone has their own fetishes I use spit like Pabloโ€™s dog bell. Every time I touch My submissive petโ€™s penis I will lick My hand(s) and cover it with My spit beforehand. It eventually gets to the point that My true submissive bitches become fully erect at any time just by Me licking My hand. What a wonderful tool. Always keep in mind that the brain is the largest sex organ.

If Iโ€™m playing with him naked then I will make a point of spitting on his penis. Not only is spitting on his tool degrading but it also makes perfect lubrication. It may take a while to learn how to aim your spit. When in doubt hold his penis with your hands and lean over it letting a gob of spit roll off your lips. Make him watch โ€“ but watch and hold his penis tight โ€“ as he will most likely twitch from arousal.

No Grabbing and Thrusting Ever

he is NEVER allowed to thrust, and make sure he is aware of this. I am the one who is playing and controlling his meat and he has to take it. It makes the blowjob most Dominant and enjoyable. Once youโ€™ve got him lubed up with spit then itโ€™s all up to hand and mouth movements. Continually spit on his penis as the wetter you can keep it with the tight grasp of your hands and lips the better.

I bet that regardless if you have ever liked blowjobs before this that you will enjoy using him and playing with his penis in this way. The moaning you will get out of him as you swirl your tongue around his head and twist your lips around the shaft will have him twitching and moaning like a bitch.

Stop whenever you want. Make him stroke himself. Control the tempo. Once you’ve started he will follow your every move so feel free to do what comes naturally for you. Being Dominant is about finding you and your submissive’s kinks and explore them; don’t let anyone else define you or what you can or cannot do.

Add Some Humiliation To The Blowjob For More Fun

Donโ€™t forget some verbal humiliation and cbt (cock and ball torture). Remind him he is your sex toy and that you like using him. Nibble on his cock a bit. Bite at the head and have a firm grip on his balls. Make sure you have a safe word and start with soft pain and nibbles; slowly increasing it. As it goes the pain you occasionally give him throughout the blowjob will remind him that you are in command.

For those of you who are a bit more daring; rub your fingertip around his asshole and call him a faggot while you make him beg for you to stick it in his ass. The more you can make him say while he is aroused the more you can use against him later…

Experiment with your beloved pet. Always keep in mind that there are no rules in your relationship of what you and your partner can or cannot do due to โ€˜statusโ€™ in the relationship. A Mistress can do whatever She wants as the root of it is making Her happy. Donโ€™t let anyone โ€“ including yourself โ€“ box you in.

Goddess SheDevil ๐Ÿ’‹


Well of course youโ€™re turned on, slave. The trick is learning how to channel all that energy into something useful, like making Me happy.



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