Dominance shows itself in many ways. A Woman can be a Domme naturally in Her life and/or relationship(s); most independent Women are. If She is Dominant in a vanilla way it does not necessarily mean She is a fetish FemDom or is going to carry Her Dominating into the bedroom or sexually as you fantasize about. It seems too often that a sub will fall for a Woman because of Her natural Dominating presence and find themself stuck in this predicament of wanting to serve Her desires, wanting Her to explore Her kinks, and don’t know how to do this without ‘topping from the bottom‘.
Continue reading “Bringing Out A Vanilla Domme’s Kink”A Safeword for the Master
Safeguarding for safe & sane BDSM
A safeword for the Domme may not be clear at first. If you take a moment to think about it, it makes perfect sense. Not much is ever spoken about in terms of Dommes and a safeword for them. Subbie limits are well respected. The Dommes safety however seems to be a very large and important area that has been overlooked. It is brought to a bottoms awareness as a submissive that they are given safewords to protect and monitor themself with, it is just as so in regards to the Master.
Continue reading “A Safeword for the Master”Topdrop & Subdrop Why it happens
The drop after the BDSM high
Topdrop & Subdrop are terms you should know if you take part in any Dominant/submissive experiences. They happen, more often than not, because our emotional depth from an experience and the real world collides, and can be devastating.The stronger and deeper you venture into your fantasies the more likely a drop will occur. There are measures to follow to prevent and manage Topdrop or subdrop. As much as they are similar they are also different.
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