Bringing Out A Vanilla Domme’s Kink

Dominance shows itself in many ways. A Woman can be a Domme naturally in Her life and/or relationship(s); most independent Women are. If She is Dominant in a vanilla way it does not necessarily mean She is a fetish FemDom or is going to carry Her Dominating into the bedroom or sexually as you fantasize about. It seems too often that a sub will fall for a Woman because of Her natural Dominating presence and find themself stuck in this predicament of wanting to serve Her desires, wanting Her to explore Her kinks, and don’t know how to do this without ‘topping from the bottom‘.

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A Safeword for the Domme

A safeword for the Domme may not be clear at first. If you take a moment to think about it, it makes perfect sense. Not much is ever spoken about in terms of Dommes and a safeword for them. subbie limits are well respected. The Dommes safety however seems to be a very large and important area that has been overlooked. It has been brought to my awareness as a submissive that I am given safewords to protect and monitor myself with.

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Topdrop & Subdrop Why it happens

Terms that if you should know if you take part in any Dominant/submissive experiences. They happen, more often than not, because our emotional depth from an experience mixed with the real world collide can be devastating. There are measures to follow to prevent and manage Topdrop or subdrop. As much as they are similar they are also different.

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