It can be scary, the things our minds are drawn to; the fantasies that manifest inside us, which our arousal seems to fuel deeper. We can fight it, but relapse is inevitable that way. There is no way to ‘push’ away such things from your life, and as much as you think burying these arousing concepts feels like a safe option all it serves to do is make them stronger. You are using all your power to buy time as they expand.
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If you hide baby monsters under the carpet they will grow bigger in the dark.
Safeguarding for safe & sane BDSM
A safeword for the Domme may not be clear at first. If you take a moment to think about it, it makes perfect sense. Not much is ever spoken about in terms of Dommes and a safeword for them. Subbie limits are well respected. The Dommes safety however seems to be a very large and important area that has been overlooked. It is brought to a bottoms awareness as a submissive that they are given safewords to protect and monitor themself with, it is just as so in regards to the Master.
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