Are You FemDom Compatible?

FemDom means Female Domination; you have heard of it. Maybe you’ve even jerked off to a few dirty Mistress porno videos in latex with high heeled boots. However, everyone has done that right? And that’s not “real” life… It’s only a fantasy.

She’s Not Your Porno FemDom

So, you’ve been with your partner for a while. Recently you’ve noticed a change. She may or may not have been outspoken before; but lately you’ve noticed She is really making sure you know exactly what She wants and how She feels – good or bad – about absolutely everything. Showing a little Dominance and you’re not so sure about it.

She wants you to help out with the chores, demands all your attention and is constantly making you run around for Her. You have become exhausted with these new tasks that She has – ongoing and increasingly – come to expect of you. Whether you have realized it yet or not you have gotten yourself involved with a Dominant Woman.

Birthing FemDoms

In today’s new-age of thinking Dominant Females – or FemDoms – have been birthing everywhere. It’s really no surprise with the entire 1900’s being a resolution of Female rights and a Woman’s place in society. Now, a Woman can decide whether She wants to work at home or be the breadwinner; and let’s be honest the man has NO say. Most men want a Woman who is secure in Herself, earns Her own income and knows what She wants… but now the male is faced with how dominant of a Woman he enjoys – and frankly how much he can handle.

There are different degrees of Dominant Females. If your partner has become more extreme it’s pretty safe to say She has always been Dominant in one way or another. Believing in Female Supremacy, I believe all Women have that Dominant – take charge – gene; whether it ever surfaces or not. The term FemDom is a definition saved for the more extreme Dominant Women; the ones who insist on the role reversal and complete Female Domination. 

It’s Easy Enough To See She is Calling The Shots

A FemDom is a Female who calls all the shots. She is the final decision maker. She will have certain ways She likes everything done. She will put all the blame on you if you have decided to do something your way instead of Hers. She is the one who instigates – and sometimes demands – sex and/or sexual activity. Many times it’s either the FemDom’s way or no way at all.

Does this sound like the kind of person your Woman has transformed into? Many men will find a Woman like this very conflicting. This is simple to understand when society still raises men as the superior of the sexes. This is slowly changing as Women have fought for equality. As time goes on many Females are starting to desire more than equality as they find things run smoother when they take-charge. This could have been your partners spark.

Call Her Domme

So now that She is becoming more and more dominant as the days go on, what do you do? Well you may consider Her stubborn, but you also must realize that this dominance has been residing inside Her all along, and it’s not likely to go anywhere anytime soon. Everyone has a right to what they want and what they can or cannot live with. Technically you are being just as stubborn in resisting; keeping Her from what makes Her happy. You cannot tell Her to become less dominant and She, even though She has become a FemDom, cannot demand you become more submissive. All men are submissive, some more than others, to females somehow at some point. However, the level of submissiveness in a man will vary greatly.

The Art of Submission To FemDom is a Practiced Form

Most likely if the Female’s Dominance has become overwhelming for the male he must look inward and decide if this is what he wants. I would advise any male who truly loves their Female to take some time and try being fully submissive to Her. Most of the time it’s the male bringing out the Dominance in the Female.

I think “non-submissive” males label themselves so as they are fearful of truly laying themselves out – open and vulnerable – to the Female. They are afraid of being hurt or abused and taken for granted from Her and the ridicule from other men. Think of the well-used term ‘pussy whipped’; except this would be even more extreme than that joke boys use to poke fun at each other since high school. If your Female partner has been considerate, caring and loving of you up until now then there’s little chance that that part of Her has changed as She’s transformed into Her true FemDom self.

It’s likely She has Become More Comfortable With You

There is really no way to change a FemDom. The fact She is acting this way most likely means She is comfortable with letting you experience the real Her in all its glory and magnitude. However, at the end of the day you decide if you’re either compatible with Her or not. Keep in mind you have to enjoy being fully submissive to a FemDom for Her to enjoy it too. It’s the dominance and power exchange She enjoys, so if you don’t enjoy the actual act of serving a Woman and making Her happy then you’re not going to be compatible.

She will return more love than you ever knew existed if you stop worrying about yourself and aim to please Her. This is one of the hardest things for an insecure or fearful male to get over; as he will worry that he won’t be taken care of or be able to take care of Her properly. Rest assured that if She is (or learns to be) a good FemDom you will live fully satisfied by Her. It’s that ‘mothering’ instinct in Her that will make sure of it.

Be optimistic and open with Her and I’m sure She will wrap Her fetish wings around you and take you along for a ride of your life… with you not even noticing you’re the one under Her power at times. Be honest with yourself… maybe it’s time you confess to Her the things that make you twitch… Give Her the reins… and hang on for pure satisfaction…

She’ll make you scream. O my Goddess 💋


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